Hidden Meaning of Wearing a Choker

I love chokers, but what I found on the internet shocks me! Did you know that wearing a choker has a sexual meaning to it? I am a grown woman and happily married, but openly talking about sex is a sensitive topic that I never discuss to anyone or rather avoid to address. However, these interesting information I found online is worth sharing to any ladies who are not aware of the meaning of wearing a choker to the opposite sex. The Internet provides all kinds of information to the public. Although, I do believe not everything I read or see online is real. I still find some articles and information I find online worth sharing to anyone.

Therefore, before I create an uproar here on my blog about human rights and feminism; I just want to inform you this is just what I found online. Which I decided to share with you all, and I am open for discussion to this rather interesting topic; If you wish to do that! Anyways, back to the article, I found; the author mentioned when a boy sees a woman wearing a choker they are considered a slut! As chokers look more like a collar that you put on your pet. Also, collar symbolizes submission or kinky things your mommy prohibit you not to do! Although, it is just a joke among boys; this joke is insulting for any woman that loves to wear chokers just like me. The author of this article and I share the same sentiment about using a choker. We should not worry what the opposite sex thinks about us wearing a choker. Or whatever joke they have about chokers, this should not hinder us ladies from wearing our favorite jewelry. Let others think whatever they want. What is important is you know who you are! Wear that choker with confidence and pride, because no one got the right to judge you unless they are perfect! Please click the link to read the full article I found that is so intriguing it is worth sharing: www.mamamia.com.au

Fun Facts: Three famous royalties recorded in the history that was seen wearing choker on their portraits are Queen Anne Boleyn, Queen Victoria, and Princess Alexandra of Denmark. Now boys who said only sluts wear chokers! For reference, please visit: www.goldenagebeads.com

Please leave your comment below; will you continue to wear a choker? I kindly ask to keep your comment to rated PG and be kind, because the world is a better place if we share love instead of hate.

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Comments: 21
  • #1

    Lureta (Tuesday, 19 September 2017 19:52)

    Never knew those facts about the choker before. I found it quite interesting. Though I am not a lover of choker, I don't think I would let it deter me should I choose to wear one.

  • #2

    MIcky (Tuesday, 19 September 2017 20:02)

    I'm so cute

  • #3

    Toni (Friday, 22 September 2017 09:55)

    I have never heard this before. I learned something new. Honestly, I would wear a choker if I had one. I'm with you ... wear your choker with confidence. :)

  • #4

    EJ (Sunday, 24 September 2017 10:02)

    Interesting blog post! Thanks for sharing this information.

  • #5

    Elizabeth (Tuesday, 03 October 2017 08:26)

    I learned something new, never knew chokers were associated with such. Will always wear mine irrespective of how it is perceived. Thanks for sharing.

  • #6

    Kim (Tuesday, 03 October 2017 08:36)

    I don't quite understand why you aren't comfortable talking about something as natural as sex, but I can dig it. Interesting facts about the choker. So many double meanings in life.

  • #7

    Sharon (Tuesday, 03 October 2017 09:57)

    Oh I love chokers too! We'll just wear them with pride (for fashion reasons) ;) You're definitely rockin it in your pictures!

  • #8

    Sarah (Tuesday, 03 October 2017 12:11)

    I never knew this!

  • #9

    Amy (Tuesday, 03 October 2017 16:14)

    I love chokers, but never knew this!!

  • #10

    Mihaela Echols (Friday, 13 October 2017 15:33)

    I remember when they were big in middle school, but I knew they meant that so I didn't wear them.

  • #11

    Maydi (Tuesday, 24 October 2017 12:41)

    Interesting. While I am very happy I live in a society where most people don't really care what you wear, it is good to stay updated on any connotations a piece of clothing or accessory might have. Thanks for sharing!

  • #12

    Elizabeth Watson (Tuesday, 24 October 2017 14:49)

    An interesting read though this information isn't new to me. I love to wear cholera and will always do so in part because I enjoy the way they look and feel on me. They also symbolize a part of my personality which isn't a sl*t but rather a submissive person. It's not an invitation so much as an acknowledgement of who I am. In the end I believe any accessories we chose for ourselves should always be more about their meaning to the wearer than the observer. Thanks for putting this out there.

  • #13

    lia (Wednesday, 21 February 2018 06:18)

    i never knew this omygosh!�

  • #14

    nt (Friday, 11 May 2018 23:11)

    Shocked too i heard it from my cc and didnt believe it now am satisfied bt i luv chokers

  • #15

    Bib (Sunday, 27 May 2018 20:15)

    I like the look of them but they really do say the wrong thing sociodynamically now, however we dont have this stigma with scarves :-)

  • #16

    Brett (Wednesday, 20 June 2018 15:42)

    Ya I am a married guy and I kind of tend to think girls are trying to get the D when they wear a choker. My wife recently wore one and I was like TF? I thought all this same stuff before reading your article or momamia’s. I had bet even seen the memes. You wonder why queens whore it? They are literally nothing compared to the kings over there. No offence. It’s why America was born. Females were chattel (property) so ya they will wear sexy dog collars... It’s like wearing a short skirt with no panties and bending over every chance you get. It’s like showing your cleavage like crazy and wondering why everyone is staring... If you don’t want to be thought of a promiscuous hoe, then don’t do it. It’s not about being liberated and wearing whatever you want. It’s the way we have all been conditioned through media and advertising. Reverse psych... Sex sells. Just facts and a BIT of opinion...

  • #17

    Grutt (Sunday, 15 July 2018 09:31)

    Fun fact: Queen Victoria was indeed a slut. Having 9 kids within 15 years. Even known that she had sex for fun, so yeah..probably wore a choker because she did like it rough.

  • #18

    Skynet (Saturday, 29 September 2018 13:09)

    I knew chokers were 'inappropate' but I never knew wearing one is considered being a 'slut'

    Today is my brothers birthday
    and my mom is wearing a dress and it comes with a chokers and I was shocked

  • #19

    Mrbeast6000 (Wednesday, 10 October 2018 19:37)

    I wear a choker and I didn't know this, im in 7th grade and WOW

  • #20

    Zack (Wednesday, 17 October 2018 21:59)

    I’m a 15 year old boy and a friend pointed out a girl to me who was wearing on and told me that’s what it meant and I have a little sister who it 10 years old (who like all kids wanna do) is fit in with the kids at school thank god I have this article now I can tell her why she shouldn’t were it thank you

  • #21

    TLKD (Saturday, 29 December 2018 00:53)

    My boyfriend gave me a choker for Christmas, although my dad found it amusing and called it a collar my mom was ok with it, I understand why she was as well, she was ok with it because she used to always wear chokers. Now I don't know why my boyfriend gave me the choker, but I wear and love it anyway.